The ABC’s of an Ultimate Night of Passion

It’s important to keep the fire burning in your relationship.  Just listen to any relationship expert and they’ll tell you that variety, new experiences and attention can strengthen the bond between lovers.

Reignite the spark in your relationship with these ABCs of creating the Ultimate Night of Passion…All you need are the seven Passion Parties hostess gifts, which can ALL BE YOURS FOR FREE for simply hosting The Ultimate Girls’ Night In for your friends!

A.  Passion Anticipation

A little teasing can get the day started just right…Wake your partner up with a sweet, gentle kiss and a little touch, but don’t get carried away!  Just provide a preview of what’s in store for tonight.

When your partner isn’t looking, post an I.O.U. sex sticker somewhere and let your sweetie know EXACTLY where to find it when they get home.

B.  Passion Bath

After a long, stressful day, the last thing any of us wants to do is peel off our clothes and get physical.  It’s amazing what a hot bath, infused with pomegranate ginger, will do for your mood.  While you’re in the bath, light the massage candle, soak in the aroma and then start your night of passion with a sensual massage.  All you need is in the Simply Sensual gift set!

C.  Passion Creativity

Heat up one, two, or even all three body icing jars and ask your partner to decorate your body with the treats.  Relax as they run the paint brushes over your body: you’re a tasty canvas!  Now…let them lick it off and wash off the rest with a sexy shower.

D. Passion InDulgence

Once you’re both feeling a little frisky, it’s time to stimulate your largest sexual organ: your skin!  Try this for a different couple’s massage:  Have your partner lay on their back while you run the Power Bullet along the contours of their body.  Be gentle and start out with a slow speed.  Slowly make your way to the genital region of their body.  Be EXTRA gentle.  Pay attention to their response and use it as the cue for your next move.  When you’re finished, ask your partner to play with you or themselves using the toy…

 E.  Passion Edible

What’s more irresistible than rosy, sugary-sweet, tingling lips? Rosy, sugary-sweet, tingling nipples!  Use our Passion Lip and Body Gloss in BOTH areas and move on to the next step!

F.  Passion Fantasy

Sexual fantasy is one of the most common forms of sexual expression, and role-play allows you to take that fantasy one step further.  Put on bow-topped thigh-highs and let your imagination inspire a naughty fantasy.  Kiss your partner with your sugary lips, and beckon them to play along.  Don’t forget to motion them to your candy-like, delicious nipples!

 G.  Passion Grand Finale

 After exploring your wild sides, it’s time to get back to a little warm and tenderness.  Invite your partner to pleasure you using Ring-O and oral stimulation.  Once you’ve reached your climax, hop on top for some sweet love making.  Then fall asleep in one another’s arms.

Are you interested in helping others rekindle the romance in their relationship?  Do you want to be your own boss, set your own hours and make your own rules? Join our team of Passionistas and take the first step to making all your dreams come true!

Your Passport to Passion

Tips for Great Vacation Sex at Home or Away!

The Passport to Passion is your guide to the ultimate vacation sex – even if you don’t have any travel plans this summer. Vacation sex is all about breaking routines, tossing out schedules, leaving the worries of work and family behind so you can focus on the best destination there is – each other. Discover the passion this summer with these tips for the ultimate vacation sex.

Vacation sex doesn’t have to involve expensive airline tickets, passports or cab fare. Meet up at a local hotel for a night or a weekend. Visit a nearby restaurant for dinner. While you might go out to dinner all the time, going someplace other than home makes the evening more exciting. The next morning, order breakfast in bed from room service.

Captivate your partner by focusing on the sense of touch. Have your partner close their eyes or use a soft blindfold. Explore your partner’s body with a feather tickler, then your fingertips, and finally your lips. Spend five to ten minutes on each step. Save the best areas of your partner’s body for last.

If you’ve never tried body finger painting, summer is a great time to try something new. With your partner’s naked body as your canvas, body painting involves a lot of sensual touch. It’s new and different and totally sexy.

No time for a camping trip in the mountains with mosquitoes and lack of running water? Pitch a tent in the backyard. Use a lantern for some romantic lighting, inflate the air mattress and enjoy each other under the stars.

Spice up a shower and have hot sex in summer rain. Bring your plants into the bathroom for decoration, burn a woodsy-smelling incense (like sandalwood, myrrh or cedar), turn on the shower and enjoy.

Have a summer picnic in your own living room. Lay out a blanket, prepare a picnic meal. Have lots of fresh fruit and hand feed each other. Curl up together and have a romantic movie marathon.

Go all out and decorate a room in your home to mimic the scenery at a location you both want to go to in the future.

If you have a pool or hot tub and lots of privacy, enjoy a playful skinny dip together.

Sex and the City 2 is here!

Some Bunny to Love

“I know where my next orgasm is coming from.”
– Miranda, “Sex and the City”

Ever since that special episode of “Sex and the City” in which Miranda
introduces Carrie and Charlotte to the wonders of a rabbit vibrator, these vibrators have become wildly popular. Today, rabbit vibrators are the best-selling vibrating sex toy on the market for women and there are over 100 varieties available, from big to small, skinny to fat, low-tech to high-tech. There is a rabbit vibrator to fit any woman’s sensual desires.

The term “rabbit vibrator” is synonymous with sex toys designed to stimulate both inner and outer sex organs at the same time. These particular toys are also referred to as “dual action” or “dual purpose” vibrators. The shaft is normally carved to resemble a penis while the rabbit attachment branches upward from the shaft to vibrate the clitoris.

While most rabbit vibrators look alike, there are always notable differences. The most gratifying rabbit vibrators, such as the Cosmo Bunny, also feature inner beads which rotate to massage the vagina, a pulsing and vibrating shaft, a multi-speed rabbit clitoral stimulator and a waterproof design – so you can take your rabbit vibrator into the shower or tub with you. The price of a rabbit vibrator mirrors its capabilities. The lower the price of a rabbit vibrator, the less features included. As the saying goes, you get what you pay for.

Rabbit vibrators emerged from Japan where it was illegal to produce sex toys that resembled male genitalia, so clever craftsman created toys to look like cute, approachable animals. The practice continues to this day, and this style of vibrator has earned legions of loyal fans.

The animal vibrator you choose matters. Bunny ears are critical for that ever important clitoral stimulation.

An awful lot of bells and whistles in one sex toy may seem unnecessary, but consider this: approximately 70% of women to do not orgasm with penetration alone. Studies show that 15%-20% of women have never experienced orgasm. With a rabbit vibrator, the guesswork is removed from sexual exploration, thanks to the dual action design, various speeds and intensities. You can customize your experience to find what works for you, and achieve orgasm with minimal effort.

Here are some tips for enjoying your rabbit vibrator:

1. Wetter is better. Use lubricant when enjoying your rabbit vibrator. You may use a water-based lubricant, such as Revelation Lubricant, or a silicone-based lubricant, such as Slip n’ Slide. But, if your rabbit vibrator is made of silicone, use a water-based lubricant only.

2. Experiment with the controls. Vary the speeds, rotation and
intensity. Have fun.

3. Remove the batteries from the toy when not in use.

4. Clean the toy between each use with Clean & Simple Adult Toy Cleanser.

5. Store separately in a plastic bag away from other toys.

Because I am so excited about the SATC2 release, I’m giving you a special offer:

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In the US, use discount code SATC and purchase your Cosmo Bunny for $100…that’s a $40 savings!

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Please your partner with a pole dance

I know it’s been some time since my last post…I can only say that sometimes life gets in the way! I’m heading off to a fabulous vacation in Las Vegas (thank you Passion Parties for an awesome tax return!) so in honour of my trip to Sin City, I hope you enjoy this post.

1 Watch a pole dance. View the instructional DVD included with the Passion Parties Dance Pole. You could also attend a pole dancing class in your area. Take mental notes about which moves look sexy to you and which you know will arouse your lover.

 2 Practice. With your own Passion Parties Dance Pole, you can practice in the privacy of your own home. You can also practice with an instructor at a pole dancing class. If you can, practice in front of a mirror so you can watch your body move. Be sure to relax and feel confident. Don’t forget to breathe. Nervousness may cause you to hold your breath as you dance, but deep breaths help to relax the body and allow the muscles to move in a more graceful manner. The more relaxed you are, the sexier you will dance.

 3 Create a character and scenario. Are you a naughty executive, secretary or librarian? Maybe you’re a domineering pirate or leather-clad temptress. Of course, you could be the demure maiden in white. Let your imagination run wild and select an appropriate costume. Choose from Passion Parties’ selection of sexy hosiery, for added fantasy.

 4 Choreograph your dance. Now that you know your character and have a costume, come up with the music and dance moves to complement the scene you’ve put together. Don’t let your lack of professional dance experience be a factor. Choose dance moves you know you can do easily, and be sure to add variety. Dance to the left of the pole; dance to the right. Slowly walk around the pole, stroking the steel in a seductive manner. If you’re not ready to jump and twirl on the pole, just dance sexily around it. In the second half of your performance, remove your clothes and be sure to end with a big finish. For inspiration and a few lessons, try the Striptease for Real Women DVD.

 5 Perform. Invite your playmate to a personal show. Set the mood with low lighting and soft music. Remember, it’s just you and your lover. Don’t be shy and be sure to look deep into your partner’s eyes during the entire performance. Be coy. Smile, flirt and tease. Now is the time to unleash your inhibitions Remember, anything goes because your special performance is being delivered with passion, romance and best of all, love.

National Orgasm Month

It’s National Orgasm Month, and there’s only one way to celebrate, but, some women find themselves unable to observe this gratifying month because they’ve never had an orgasm. To join in the fun, keep reading for all you need to know about the big O.

Orgasm 101

Orgasms are peaks of sexual excitement giving off intense, full-body waves of pleasure and relaxation. Fifty years ago, William Masters and Virginia Johnson described four stages of the human sexual response cycle: arousal, plateau, orgasm and resolution. Today, there’s some debate about the application of these stages to women as some women may not experience much of a resolution stage and may instead experience multiple orgasms without going through each stage all over again. There’s also debate in regards to the types of female orgasms. In the past, experts categorized female orgasms as either clitoral or G-spot stimulated. However, an orgasm may also be felt in the labia, heart, skin, spine or even as a rush throughout the entire body. Because orgasms are as unique as the women who experience them, there’s no way to define what’s “normal.” The only thing all female orgasms have in common is that they all involve contractions of the pelvic floor muscles. Sensation, duration and cause of the climax will vary from woman to woman; and through persistent practice and experimentation, every woman can become an expert on her own orgasms.

Multiple Orgasms

As is the case with regular orgasms, there is no “right” way to have multiple orgasms. Essentially, a multi-orgasmic woman is able to achieve more than one orgasm during a session of love-making or self-pleasuring. Multiple orgasms may not be for every woman, and that’s normal. But, if you find yourself interested in finding out whether or not you can achieve and enjoy multiple orgasms, the best thing to do is simply set aside some time to try, either alone or with a partner. After achieving one orgasm, try clitoral stimulation to reach a second climax.

Orgasms Have Health Benefits

• Relieve tension
• Burn calories
• Improve sleep
• Fight aging, by increasing the youth-promoting hormone DHEA

What Can You Do to Ensure You Achieve Orgasm?

1. RELAX. Enjoy the moment and don’t focus on having an orgasm.

2. COMMUNICATE. Let your lover know what feels good. When your partner does something you enjoy, encourage your lover to continue.

3. FANTASIZE. Let your imagination run wild. Some women find that having a fantasy during lovemaking helps them to climax. The moment you find yourself close to climaxing, try tightening and relaxing your pelvic floor muscles to spark an orgasm.

What Can Partners Do?

1. COMPLIMENT. Think of ways to make your lover feel sexy and adored.

2. BE PATIENT. Not just with your lover who is trying to achieve an orgasm, but with yourself, too. If you climax before your lover does, continue stimulating your partner by using sensual products, such as lubrication and a vibrator, or performing oral sex.

3.REMEMBER THE CLITORIS. Most women need clitoral stimulation in order to reach climax. The clitoris is just as important to women as the penis is to men.

Now that you’re an expert on orgasm, go out to your parties and spread the word. The more women know about orgasms, the easier it is to have one! Don’t forget to check out the physiology of an orgasm in The Passion Parties Guide to Great Sex.

Phthalates and Sex Toys

What are Phthalates?

Phthalates are chemicals (called plasticizers) that are used in plastics to make them soft and pliable. These chemicals are used in a variety of products that we use every day including coatings for pharmaceutical medicines, medical devices, building materials, personal care products, cosmetics, packaging materials, printing inks and food wraps and packaging. In fact, most people use products that contain phthalates throughout their day, every day.

Phthalates in Sex Toys

Like other products, sex toys get their softness and pliability from phthalates. Some of the products that Passion Parties carries contain phthalates. These products include those made of jelly rubber, PVC and soft vinyl. The amount of phthalates varies with each material and some materials contain only trace amounts.

Are Phthalates Harmful?

There has been much debate as to whether phthalates are harmful and whether or not consumers should use sex toys that contain phthalates. This debate lead to the only government sponsored clinical study designed to research the question of whether sex toys that contain phthalates are safe to use. The study found no conclusive scientific evidence that phthalates are harmful or pose any significant health risks. Conducted by the Danish Environmental Protection Agency, the data showed that moderate to heavy use (up to one hour per day) is not associatedwith any significant health risk. Most consumers do not use these products for seven hours or more per week.

Passion Parties Recommends

Health and safety are very important issues for Passion Parties, our Consultants and our clients. We recommend that each user evaluate the available information and make an informed decision as to which products meet their needs. We also recommend avoiding the use of oil-based lubricants with any sex toy that contains phthalates. Passion Parties does not carry any oil-based lubricants. In cases where users wish to avoid any potential issues that may be associated with phthalates, Passion Parties recommends that consumers use condoms with sex toys. In addition to eliminating the transfer of phthalates, condoms also keep toys from trapping dirt and bacteria. However, using a condom does not eliminate the need for using a toy cleanser. Passion Parties recommends using a toy cleanser between each use.

Other Options

Passion Parties carries many products that do not contain phthalates. Our fall catalogue will even have a phthalates free icon. If you wish to avoid phthalates altogether, we recommend products that are made from silicone, glass, hard plastic or elastomer. These products include:

• Bullet and Double Bullet
• Mini and Maxi Bullets
• Pulsing Orbiter
• G-Lite
• Velvet Curve
• Velvet Pleasure
• Versatile Vibrating Massager
• Pretty in Pink Bullet
• Tempting Tulip
• Blossom Bliss
• Waterproof Dancing Dolphin
• Body Wand
• Lovers Liaison
• Ultimate Indulgence
• Beaming Butterfly
• Ben-Wa Balls
• Pleasure Pods
• Pleasure Pearls
• Treasure Gem
• G-Whiz
• Glassy Duet
• Male G-Spot Massager

The Ultimate Girls’ Night Showcase

Come out for an evening of food, laughs and prizes. While you’re there, check out the new catalogues and products for :

Mary Kay

Passion Parties

Partylite

The Open House will take place in Courtenay, B.C. from 7pm until 9pm. Please contact me for more information if you are interested in attending.

Nicole Murillo

www.purelypassions.com

purelypassions@gmail.com

Self Pleasure~Exploring your body

Taking the time to explore your own body, regardless of your age or sexual experience, helps you discover your sensual likes and dislikes and achieve orgasm more easily. Self-pleasure is a very healthy thing for all. Knowing where you like to be touched, and what effect that location has on you, shows you how to teach your partner where to focus his attention. Self-pleasure isn’t about replacing your partner; it’s about developing your relationship so you both can enjoy sex to the fullest. It also teaches you to be more comfortable with your body. A big misconception about self-pleasuring is that it solely involves your finger(s) and your clitoris. But self-pleasuring is about connecting to and understanding your own body. Don’t limit yourself and exclude the other sensual regions of your body like your breasts, nipples, stomach, thighs and buttocks. Explore your body, first with your hands, and remember the places that tingled at your touch. You may sometimes feel an inability to relax enough to fully enjoy self-pleasuring. This inability may have many causes, the most common being stress-related. If you’re unable to relax enough to fully enjoy self-pleasuring but feel like you need orgasmic release in order to relax, you may just need some assistance. The RomantaTherapy® Velvet Pleasure, the first passion toy added to our exclusive RomantaTherapy line, is a small, quiet personal massager with a pleasurable, velvety touch. When used on your clitoris, it reduces the amount of manual stimulation needed. You won’t have to focus on keeping an adequate pressure or speed — just allow the Velvet Pleasure to aid in your pleasure and enjoy the results. The Velvet Pleasure comes with its own carry case, providing a discreet way for it to travel everywhere with you. One of the staples of every woman’s Passion Pantry is the Bullet. A bullet is a small, egg-shaped vibrator attached to a controller by a wire. The bullet, like the Velvet Pleasure, provides added stimulation to any body part it touches. It has many accessories, like the Pleasure Safari sleeves, that change the type of stimulation received. For example, the rabbit provides a less intense, almost tickling sensation, while the turtle provides a more direct, intense vibration. Perhaps orgasm doesn’t happen to you easily as a result of intercourse. Most likely, you’re not achieving the right amount of stimulation to climax. Every person’s level of arousal is different; it doesn’t mean you or your partner is doing anything wrong, or that you lack attraction toward your lover. Perhaps you just need a little something extra to help you get in the mood and “jump start” your arousal. To help you prepare for sex, apply a small  amount of Pure Satisfaction UniSEX Enhancement Gel to the center of a Personal Finger Smitten placed on the finger you are accustomed to using to pleasure yourself. Gently rub the finger smitten on your clitoris, allowing the Pure Satisfaction to take its effect. Many women say they are able to climax within five to seven minutes of application, and the tingling sensation and level of arousal you receive will help you when you’re with your partner as well. Self-pleasure can also be incorporated into foreplay. An activity you can try with your partner is to lay side-by-side, facing each other, while you both separately stimulate yourselves while watching each other. When you’re ready, you can “take over” for each other and continue the activity, only this time you’re stimulating him while he touches you. Self-pleasuring is the safest sex you can have. It helps you learn about your body, enjoy who you are and never have to worry about your performance. In addition to being pleasurable, it’s natural, invigorating, rejuvenating and fun. It increases your sexual awareness and makes you a better lover. You should never feel ashamed about self-pleasure — there’s absolutely nothing wrong with enjoying who you are and what makes you feel good.

– Nicole Murillo O.o°oMaking the world a better place one Orgasm at a timeo°o.O purelypassions@gmail.com www.purelypassions.com

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Pamper Your Passion Diva

You are super woman, super mom, super wife…but like a wise woman once told me: “If you don’t take care of yourself, how can you take care of everyone else?”

Today’s modern woman balances so many responsibilities in her life: family, career, friends, volunteer work, social obligations and more. Forgetting to add herself to that equation is something that most women seem to do. Women are so busy doing for others, they often miss out on doing something special for themselves. Sound familiar?

 You wouldn’t think that taking time to pamper yourself would be such a big deal, but here’s why it is: with so many people depending on you, you need to be at the top of your game, all the time and everyday. The only way to accomplish this is by nurturing your needs and pampering yourself. Think of yourself as a race car. Race car drivers spend hours pampering and tending to their race car. That’s because it’s essential that they can depend on their car to achieve victory. As a woman-on-the-go, you are no different. And, if you want to be able to go full throttle, you absolutely must incorporate self-pampering into your busy lifestyle. As Pat Davis would say, “Pamper your inner Passion Diva.”

 But how can you do this? So simple!

 ■ First thing first is to schedule your pampering sessions. If you’re like the typical, busy, 21st Century diva, you probably have a calendar you use to keep your schedule. Now is the time to add long baths, massages, trips to the nail salon and even sensual time with your partner onto that schedule. If that schedule is viewed by the whole family, just label your sensual time as “date night.”

 ■ Take inventory of the type of pampering you need. Do you often feel stress or tension in your neck or back? Then consider adding massages to your pampering schedule. Have you noticed you are less limber than you once were? Think about taking a Pilates class. It’s summer time. Are you looking a little on the pale side? Time to hit the tanning salon. Sit down and analyze the type of pampering you think you need and add it to your schedule.

 ■ Make it easy for yourself. If pampering becomes just another chore to do, you aren’t going to want to do it (note from Nikki: and you’re kind of defeating the purpose). So find ways to make pampering yourself easy. For example, if you would like to add manicures and pedicures to your pampering schedule, but the nearest salon is a 20-minute drive, gather a group of friends and hire a technician to visit your home. Also, always keep spa-like products in bathroom. You’ll need lotions, scrubs, shower gels, bubble baths and body mists to pamper your inner Passion Diva daily. Select tranquil and romantic fragrances and keep all your products together in one container or basket. Call it your special pampering pantry.

 Once you incorporate self-pampering into your daily schedule, you’ll find yourself better equipped to handle any little thing life throws at you, whether it’s traffic, a late appointment or a surly store clerk. With proper balance and soothing pampering, you’ll find yourself able to go full throttle, all day and every day.

Nicole Murillo
Passion Parties® Independent Consultant
O.o°oMaking the world a better place one Orgasm at a timeo°o.O

Email: purelypassions@gmail.com
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